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    September 26

    临行综合症之送礼

    古人说齐家治国平天下，还真是有点道理，如果一个人能有妥善处理并平衡一个家族错综复杂关系的能力了，也就具备了治理国家和天下的能力了。虽说古人所指的家是一个大家族，但如今面临的人情交往并不比之更为简单。大约在中国要想处理好这些问题，委实是天底下最难的一件事。快要闪了，衣锦还乡显然不算，但许久未见，回去总得带点什么，诸多亲戚朋友，必须考虑的一个都不能少。之前与郑臻荣聊天还说，最近为考虑该买什么样的礼物，该买多少费了不少脑筋，实在羡慕像他一般行事举重若轻之人。后来吴颖兰甚至开玩笑说俺非常具有科研精神，买礼物还要列一个Excel文档。预算就那么多，允许的飞行重量有就50lb，什么样的人送什么样的礼品，送多贵重的，要想尽可能的方方面面都处理好，送得好又送得巧，人情做到位，实在没法不举轻若重，也许还是我不能游刃有余的举重若轻。即使如此，还会有不少遗漏的，无法顾及的。写到最后想起青帮大佬杜月笙的一句名言“做人有三碗面最难吃，一是人面、二是情面、三是场面”，诚如斯哉！
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    Cindy Wwrote:
    可以都送嘛。“礼”多人不怪是这样解释滴。
    Sept. 30
    PENG WUwrote:
    我靠，既然你认识大脸，加之你非凡谈吐，蔡行长就八九不离十了～～
    平辈送礼多不合适，我送你了大脸有意见，他不敢提，夏局还要打抱不平，这事就麻烦了，你说呢蔡行？
    Sept. 30
    frankwrote:
    呃。。。大脸还是现身一下吧，免得你乱猜。。。我又没要你给我带以吨为单位的礼物，你紧张什么？
    ps：如果你觉得你的体重以及行李造成了更多的二氧化碳排出，你可以回来后补种一片树林，这叫碳汇～～～
    Sept. 29
    Cindy Wwrote:
    ......
    Sept. 29
    PENG WUwrote:
    to +1：还是你比较厚道～～值得表扬

    to cindy：莫打岔，给革命老前辈带东西我都还照顾不过来，要不我牺牲点人情和你换块袋鼠皮？

    to 德文家的：你们那点东西还好了，顶多两磅，你们回国时是不是小乐乐也可带俩旅行包？哈哈
    Sept. 29
    况 徐wrote:
    哎呀，我还占去你不少重量呢，呵呵
    Sept. 29
    Cindy Wwrote:
    天赋没有，可以后天培养培养嘛。
    frank说的对，其实大家比较关心的是你给我们送点啥来自米国的礼物（尽管可能是made in china）。
    Sept. 28
    Vivian Chanwrote:
    祖国欢迎你...... ^_^
    Sept. 28
    PENG WUwrote:
    to ee：你和另外一个mm的想法一样，说回去一人发100美元，啥都解决了～～唉，俺是穷人阔不起来啊，呵呵

    to cindy：所以我戏称这次在补“生活购物实践课”，还是补了不少知识的，做个street smart and penny saver还是很不容易的，我没这天赋。

    to 剑桥董 and 周老兄，你们又让我汗颜了～～

    to frank：大脸匿名？你就别捣乱了，我超载了你给我出上百美元的罚款？
    Sept. 28
    frankwrote:
    别的我不管，我就关心你送我什么～～～
    Sept. 28
    tristen zhouwrote:
    呵呵，恭喜恭喜，衣锦还乡咯！
    Sept. 26
    建绩 董wrote:
    赞啦，终于衣锦还乡了
    Sept. 26
    Cindy Wwrote:
    呵呵，送礼这个东西，选择上面还是比较有意思的。
    Sept. 26
    伊伊 Rwrote:
    bring US$, 轻便体面
    Sept. 26
    伊伊 Rwrote:
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    Sept. 26

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